pregnancy is easy or difficult?

It is very easy... when you are young on an average till 27years.But later it is more difficult.
Though it is not true for everyone it can happen as easily as at young age.

But yes having knowledge is always good but too much knowledge is bad.
I have seen cases when first pregnancy happens before the lady realizes but second has so much problem.

what should be done in such cases..
talk over discuss and meet a doctor if he she feels necessary actions has be to taken but remember whenever something is done the patient should not what is being done, why and what are the steps and medications . Even why the medications are done and its dosage.

Always ask around for doctor and their review it always help.The doctor had to be open, good and understanding.

do you love me- my hair asked me?

I was born with lot of hair and being a girl it was an asset, as a toddler golden locks falling around my cheeks... were something. But bad luck after my first mundan (shave) I lost the thickness as well as the curls..

Mom decided to keep it as short as possible but to my mom's surprise that helped, my hair got thicker and grew too fast. In college all my friends used to but conditioner, henna, curd and what all combinations to give it shine, volume and growth.

But my hair deprived of all the affection and care grew too fast and added to the volume. In college I used to leave it open ... and girls said if we can die for your hair then what about boys...( but reality was I just washed gave a comb and came to college never even oiled it.).

I loved the compliments and enjoyed them. After some years I thought I had enough let me shorten it... so got it short . Oh god!.... what a reaction...from everyone.


Yes,I do love you! You are my biggest asset.

People who just knew that I work around, said hi once in a while or were close to me told me" We loved your hair ...! Why you did this to such a beautiful hair?...  Even who hated me said -hey! now, why have you done this?

That is when I realized I should take care of them they do make me proud and it does add to my personality.

But as fate had it in store I came to Bangalore... weather, hard water and everything my hair started falling.... and I felt... as if my hair told me you have ignored me now I don't care.

So I used curd for conditioning, used shampoo for my hair type and got hair spa nothing seemed to work. One fine day I got Dove shampoo (damage therapy intensive repair) sachet with a magazine for hair fall.

It clicked.....it worked wow thank god.. my hair was shining it grew without bothering and was again thick as ever thanks to the magazine , hair and off-course DOVE!!!

day care or full time servant-when working what is better for kid

I will share some positive side of day care-

1) Has lot of facilities

2) educated and trained people

3) -lot of learnings for child
4) help in feeding


negative aspect-
1)expensive
2)infection from other kids
3)out of home
4)no home made food

Positive side of maid-

1) kid is at home
2) home made food
3) we can reach home and check the kid
4) less expensive
5) less chance of infection

Negative aspect-
1) bad behavior of maid
2) leaving complete house with maid
3) uneducated maid majorly
4) lesser learning's

marriage or CAREER

Well if I have to complete my article I have to say that both have an equal share in a women's life.
Though it is a difficult answer to give. till you do not reach a point where you have to ultimately choose over something they both have important roles.
But to choose a path the Marriage has more importance. I will say as management rule say the middle path is better do not leave the job for marriage infact find a better job which can balance both the things.

I had a survey done which showed that women with no job and women with job having lot of work load had equally tensed life. While women who part time or job which could gave them flexibility and good career growth were really satisfied.